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Dealing with discouragement…..

I have a hard time with discouragement. In a completely different way but much the same as my lack of self confidence…. I know this relates closely to my upbringing and the depths of my abuse, but it is still are hard pill to swallow when I am feeling so much control and self confidence building within me. Rationally or irrationally, I always feel as if people I am close with are conspiring against me… Continue reading

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Able – One: Developing Self-Confidence Simple Steps For Building …

Developing Self-Confidence Is A Process Learn The Process And Expand And Improve Every Aspect of Your Life!Developing Self-Confidence One Step At A Time!The process of Developing Self-Confidence begins when you first change your belief of what you think you can or cannot accomplish.If you don’t believe that you have the ability to accomplish whatever it is that you are striving for you are without question guaranteeing your failure.Most of us sabotage our chances to achieve higher levels of success in life because we fail to believe in ourselves.If you try your hardest and you still find that you cannot make yourself belief in your ability to accomplish a particular task, then Fake It!That’s right, I said fake it, just forget what your mind is telling you and start telling yourself that nothing can stop you. Developing Self-Confidence requires you to take action.If you lack the confidence you need to get a head in life but you have the desire to change you can do so as long as you commit to working on yourself.Our self-confidence comes from inside, if you change the way you talk to yourself and the way you think about yourself developing self-confidence will not be so challenging.You see it is not your mind that is telling you that you cannot do something, it is You telling your mind that you cannot do whatever it may be.You have to get past your own self-defeating beliefs before you will see any real change in your confidence.This is something that you can do and I will help to show you how but it will be up to you to take the actions that I suggest.So now we know that developing self-confidence is a process and not an impossibility and we know that it starts by changing the belief that we hold in our mind.If you are having a difficult time with changing your mindset what you need to do is start with something small and by small I just mean to choose something that you would like to achieve that does not present an overwhelming challenge.Developing Self-Confidence Is Easy But It Takes Action!It really can be anything, baking a pie from scratch, sinking a ten foot putt, reading a book within a week you see where I am going with this so find something similar and we will get to work.If your mind is telling you that it is just too difficult you are going to have to start to tell your mind that you can do it because in essence you control your thoughts.You can start this process through the use of self-talk, this is where you just spend a day continuously telling yourself that you can accomplish the task you have chosen.Now, after spending the day taking control of your thoughts and telling yourself that you can accomplish the task at hand “get to it,” jump right in and show yourself that you have the power and the ability to win!There you go, you just took your first major step in developing your self-confidence.Your self-esteem will rise with every accomplishment regardless of how grand or glorious it may or may not be.The fact is you took the first step and you proved to yourself that you can change your beliefs so you have taken your first action to developing self-confidence.As your self-esteem rises so does your self-confidence and your belief that you can accomplish tasks that you might otherwise not have been able to accomplish.This all becomes a vicious yet wonderful chain reaction that results in youdeveloping self-confidence to set higher and higher goals. This is how you build upon your smaller success.You started with one small goal which you did not believe you could accomplish yet you proved yourself wrong.Although if you think about it in reality you proved yourself to be right because you spent that one day telling yourself that you could accomplish the task at hand and in the end that is exactly what you had done.Self-talk is incredibly powerful not only in developing self-confidence but in changing your inner belief’s. Continue reading

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Feels like taper madness… what happens when runners don’t run

A long period of not running is a bit like a prolonged taper, it does weird things to your mind. When the running stops, that running-shaped bit of our lives becomes a void where there be dragons and monsters to work wyrd magick in our heads. When we taper, we have to trust the space of not running and it’s often when we get a deeper understanding of running. Not running because of an injury brings a similar void. Continue reading

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Be Proud of Your Blowjob Skills

So the other day I was reading another blog talking about blowjobs. Or about how to give one, specifically. It’s a great article and spells out what I talk about in the blowjob guide on my site, that you need to have fun.However, something the author mentioned in the opening of the post stuck with me. “Because being able to give good head is important. It’s important for your man. Continue reading

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Thought for the day: Developing self confidence

Today I will just give you a quote from “Start where you are” with no comments of mine. It deals with the topic of self confidence.“There was a time when I assumed these super confident people were that way because they were born with added doses of self-assured, self possessed qualities. Yet in my conversations with many individuals who have attained levels of mastery that assumption has proven wrong. And what I’ve come to discover, through this very lesson that core strengths can be forged on ordinary anvils of all kinds, is that confidence is definitely an acquired resource” by Chris Gardner. Continue reading

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Building Self Confidence | The Elle Report

Link to article:   Building Self Confidence | The Elle Report

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Personal Growth Recommendations for Enneagram Type Fours

Liabilitiesresentment, arrogance, self-loathing, envy, jealousy, distrust, suspicion, dishonesty, selfishness, self-seeking, laziness, sloth, boredom, inconsideration, intolearnce, hate, anger, irritability, greed, gluttony, gossip, impatience, fear of… … Assetsforgiveness, humility, contentment, trust, honesty, integrity, unselfishness, tolerance, acceptance, intimacy, love, kindness, generosity, praise others, look for good in others, patience, faith, trust God Continue reading

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How to…Wear Print #1

Styleby Magazine Mixing prints is very much en vogue, but this somewhat eclectic look does take a strong sense of style, as well as some serious self confidence, to carry off successfully. If you’re looking to introduce print into your wardrobe, it’s much easier to start with a single statement piece that you know will work well with your existing clothing. This great leather jacket will smarten up a simple dress, or can be thrown over a pair of jeans. And although it’s in a bold print, the neutral colourway makes it an easy piece to play with. Continue reading

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Be Inspired. Be Motivated. Be Positive.: Building Self Confidence

“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.” – Steve Jobs Continue reading

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How to Build Self Confidence: 12 Steps – Everyday Life Stuff Etc.

EVERYDAY LIFE STUFF ETC.: How to Build Self Confidence: 12 Steps – wikiHow PagesHome Everyday Mag’s & Read’s Everyday Dining & Shopping Everyday Networking & Social Media Everyday Tips & Advice How to Build Self Confidence: 12 Steps – wikiHowHow to Build Self Confidence: 12 Steps – wikiHowPosted by Robin Fruthat 7:56 PM Email ThisBlogThis!Share to FacebookReactions: ; Newer PostOlder PostHomeSubscribe to: Post Comments (Atom) Continue reading

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